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This is Part THREE: about trust and satisfaction. You can save your answers at the end of each section and come back.
PART THREE: Trust and Satisfaction
1. How many years have you been married?
10-20 years +
2. Before I got married...
I was hopeful about the future
Had a good understanding of my future spouse's flaws
Thought the marriage would last forever
Knew I was settling but I didn't want to be alone
3. Since getting married...
I have changed in a positive way
I am the same person I was before I got married
I hate who I've become
My spouse has changed me, but not in a good way
4. With regards to my marriage, if I could snap my fingers,
Stay exactly where I am
Absolutely get a divorce if I could
Make minor changes
5. When I think about growing old with my spouse, I feel:
Happy to have many years together ahead of us
Worry sometimes that we are growing apart, little in common
Mostly happy, but hope we don't grow apart
Deeply unhappy about what lies ahead
6. In regard to mutual trust:
My spouse and I trust each other just as much as we did when we got married
There is little to no trust left in our marriage
One or both of us have lost some trust in each other
My spouse and I trust each other more now than when we got married
7. Overall, do you feel satisfied with your life?
I hate my life
It could be better
I need to make major changes before I could feel satisfied
I love my life
8. How often are you intimate with your partner?
9. Do you sometimes wish you had never gotten married?
Sometimes, but the feeling goes away quickly
Yes, but who doesn't?
I very much regret getting married
No, I wouldn't change a thing
10. How attractive do you find your spouse?
My attraction is about the same as when we got married
My attraction has increased since getting married
My spouse is less attractive now that we are married
I'm not at all attracted to my spouse
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